What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence, without a standard type and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with regard for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, happy state of being. The impact is often a wonderful physical, psychological well-being. Typically, the receiver is really unwinded, splendidly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Most touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are linked with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the preferred series of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what is good for her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, love always has a proper response. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the giver is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore often take a really surprising course. Everything fits into a larger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the first action in a terrific development.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always need to be ensured. Caring attunement always comes.
Set clear borders beforehand
Every person (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also required (read the article on safeguarding limits. So believe ahead of time (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Ensure there is a correct consumption, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about psychological limits, as well as make sure for clearness about physical limits. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also entirely ok (though hard to work with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, actually each cell is sensual, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well since you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the short article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Construct in combination (rest) minutes.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves find pleasant, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when somebody goes to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for Tantric massage days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you learn what it is like to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Full of attention and presence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness (of both).